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I’ve mentioned many times at this journal that my parents live on the Isle of Wight.

For those of you who aren’t familiar with the Island, it’s a small Island of about 150 square miles off the south coast of England.  It’s divided from the mainland south coast by a narrow straight of water called the Solent.

My parents have lived on the Island since 1997, and I’ve headed over to the Island on average once a month throughout that entire time, so I seem to spend a ridiculous amount of time (and money) crossing that bloody water!

I’ve just booked my latest ferry crossing, and so once again the Island and, in particular, the Solent, are in my mind.  Although I’m often sick of the sight of that stretch of water, (and don’t get me started on the ferry fares) there’s no denying the fact that it’s a fascinating place, in a lovely part of the country, with an incredible amount of history.

And so, as I’m sitting here at a loose end, I thought it would be fun to share some fascinating facts about the Solent.

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Apparently Christmas has been rough for our local Christmas Penguin...     :(

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Mr D and I have had a few days off this week, and this morning we were in our nearest town, Camberley, having a wander around the shops.


I walked into a stationery shop, and picked up a couple of big envelopes that I needed, and when I'd bought them, I came out of the shop and was putting my wallet back into my handbag.

As I rummaged in my bag, I grabbed something hard and spiky, and when I lifted it out of the bag it was one of those life-sized plastic spiders that you see on the Hallowe'en decorations.

I let out an emarrassingly high-pitched yelp a muttered expletive and dropped the offending arachnid on the floor.

"Did you put that in my bag?" I snapped at Mr D.

"What?" Mr D replied, confused.

"That," I squealed, pointing at the floor; "that bloody plastic spider."

Mr D looked down at it, then up at me.  "I love how your default is 'DID YOU PUT THAT IN MY BAG, YOU GIT', and not, 'oh, I wonder how that got there?'

My bad...

(On reflection, I think my handbag brushed one of their hallowe'en displays as I walked in the shop)

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I'm writing on behalf of Mr D.

Yesterday evening, we were just sitting chatting and in the background there was a show on Sky called 'how do they do it?' which we were sort of and sort of not watching.

Then an item came on about canned bread.

Mr D and I had never heard of such a thing; there's no such thing here in the UK.  We watched the segment about the canned bread with fascination, and now Mr D is desperate to try it.

I've been having a look online, and it just doesn't seem to be available here at all, I would have to order it from the US and the shipment fees are stupid, so I was wondering if one of my US chums could buy us a can of B&M canned brown bread and post it to us?  I would, of course, send the cost and the postage to you right away (I can use Paypal or Wise).

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You would make Mr D a very happy boy!
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So my parents' move is finally here.

All the parties involved finally got their shit together, and barring unforeseen disasters, it's all set for Friday next week.

I'm going over there to help on Friday, and I'm so happy that I'm able to contribute because I was convinced it was all going to coincide with the aftermath of my operation when I couldn't drive.

I was over there today and took my Mum shopping, and we bought an ironing board, a mirror, a set of placemats, a duvet cover, pillow cases, a rug and four lightbulbs.

When my Mum started looking at wardrobes I had to call a halt because my car isn't that big!

So this is the end of this chapter of their lives and the beginning of a new one. I'm so relieved for them, and just glad I can be a part of it.
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Mr D slipped in the shower this morning trying to rescue a spider.  He said he didn't see it when he started showering, but he turned round to see it struggling up the side of the bathtub trying to get away from the water and he felt sorry for it.

His good deed didn't end well!



He thinks this was from the bottom of the shower door where the rubber seal has started to get old and degrade.  He said 'I caught him and tried throwing him out the window but he was having none of it so came back in and mooched off into the spare room. I was bleeding all over the place so left him to it.'

Lucky spider.  That's all I can say!
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 All the pre-ops done yesterday.
BP, bloods, ECG etc.  It seems like I'm fit and healthy enough that I'm unlikely to peg out under the anaesthetic, so it looks like we're all systems go for next Friday!
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 So, I now have my operation date, and I'll be getting my macular hole plugged on the 7th of July.  I've got a pre-op appointment on Monday when I hope to find out much more about the op and the recovery period.  The operation I'm ggetting is called a vitrectomy and it apparently includes a bonus cataract repair for a cataract that hasn't even happened yet! 

Can't say I'm looking forward to it, but I am looking forward to getting it all behind me and getting my life back on track!

Anyway, that's if from me for the momeent, but while I'm on the subject of eyes...

Have these on me!

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I think last time I mentioned my Mum and Dad here at my journal, I was close to my wits end with the whole situation regarding my Dad's health and the resulting stresses on my Mum.  Well, it's fair to say the afore mentioned situation has moved on, and thankfully for the better!

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So, I had a hospital appointment on Friday, and it's official.  I have a macular hole in my right eye.   Apparently it's something that's mostly age related - It's most common in people over 60, and I'm 54.  So yay me, it's nice to know I'm a statistical anomaly!

The good news is it's a small hole, the bad news is I'll need an operation to fix it.  This apparently involves pumping a gas bubble into my eye to put pressure on the hole and enable the edges to heal.  The doctor also said that the operation massively increases the risk of me developing a cataract in that eye within the next two years (like more than 90% risk), so while they're doing the biz for the macular hole, they'll pre-emptively repair the cataract as well.

I'm definitely going to choose to have it done under a general anaesthetic - there's no way I want to be awake and aware of all that crazy happening to my eye!

So I'm just waiting to hear from the hospital to arrange a date and then - looking forward to putting it behind me!

So, how's your 2023 going ...?

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 So, today we laid Queen Elizabeth to rest in the first state funeral this nation has seen since 1965, for Winston Chruchill, three years before I was born.

It's been fascinating to watch - truly part of history, and our armed services, as always, conducted themselves flawessly, giving their 'boss' the best send off possible.

I just want to give an honorable mention to these young guys, some as young as 19, because they undertook a huge task under immense pressure, watched by the entire world, and they carried out their task flawlessly.  That coffin was lead-lined and I believe it weighed upwards of 500 pounds. I was holding my breath with every step they took, so kudos to them!  I hope they can enjoy a well-deserved pint tonight!



Now, everything gets back to normal and we, in the UK, get used to living with a King.  The conversations about where the monarchy goes from here will no doubt start now, and by the time Charles goes, I think we will see a very different monarchy - with some changes that are probably long overdue.

But for now we can just be satisfied that we gave our Queen a fitting send off!

RIP Queen Elizabeth II
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 So, it's been a funny old couple of days.

It's a stange fact of life that anyone in the UK under 71 years of age has never known another monarch other than Queen Elizabeth II.  I haven't studied the facts, but I'm willing to guess that's about 75% of the population who have never known anything other than our Queen.

I have friends and relatives who are on every point of the Monarchist spectrum, some ardently pro, some very much anti.  Me, I sit somewhere in the middle.  There are aspects of the royal family I don't like, and I'm not what you'd call a royalist.  I'm not one of these people that travels to be at special royal events and hangs around Buckingham Palace for a glimpse of the Queen.  That said, on balance, I think - as a naton - we're better off with them than without them. Mainly because, as far as I'm concerned, the thought of an elected president scares me because the standard of our politcians, generally, is - to be frank - fucking frightening!

So, given my fairly vanilla attitude toward the Monarchy generally, I was surprised at the strength of emotion I felt when her death was announced.

Mr D and I just stood in the middle of the living room staring at the TV, and I just burst into tears. It felt like something permanent and eternal had gone, like the White Cliffs of Dover had collapsed into the sea!

Our Queen has always been a stalwart.  She's always been there, calm and industrious, doing a duty she was not born to do with a work ethic that you can't fault.  She's always been dependable and respectable, and even on the rare occasion she gets it wrong, like when she badly misread the mood of the country after the Diana tragedy, she did her best to make good afterwards, and has continued to work on keeping in touch with the modern mindset of the nation - her participation in the 'James Bond' skit at the 2012 London Olympics and the fabulous 'Paddington Bear' appearance at the Platinum Jubilee, was proof of that.  She hung on to perform her last duty - to appoint her new Prime Minister - less than 48 hours before she passed away, so typical of the woman who had duty running through her veins.

Hers is the only Royal face I've ever seen on our coins and bank notes, on our stamps in the 54 years I've been alive.  I've only ever sung God Save the Queen, and when I was a Girl Guide forty years ago or more, I pledged allegance to the Queen.

Now we, here in this damp little island, have the biggest change that many of us have ever had to deal with.  Now we have King Charles.  We'll have a different face on the bank notes, and all of us will have to get used to talking about our King.  Next year, I'll finally get to see a Monarch's coronation - that 1,000 year old Ceremony that I've never yet seen in real time.

The UK has a couple of weeks coming up, the like of which has never been seen since 1952.  It will be interesting, and uplifting, and desperately sad all at the same time.

And as for Charles the third.  I'm so sorry for the loss of his mother, and I wish him well.

I hope his reign is more successful than our last two Charles's!
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 So, I've had a week of R&R after my misadventures last week, or as much as I can, anyway.  This week has proved to me truly what I already suspected, that I'm pretty crap and R&Ring,  My body clock is too set in stone to get a minute's extra sleep and I'm always running errands or finding things around the house to do!

However, I do feel a bit more grounded.  One thing I have been doing over the last week is a lot of thinking.  Processing what happened, and processing what other people such as Mr D, doctors, friends and colleagues have told me.

One common theme seems to be that I need to start putting myself first occasionally.  It has been pointed out to me several times by several people that I always put myself bottom of my list of priorities, and that I spend so much time caring about other people, I always overlook myself.  I'd never thought of that, or never analysed the way I am, I just went on living my life the way I always have, so that gave me pause for thought.

Yesterday proved their point perfectly.  I popped out to the shops in the morning, I had a list of things to get: some rabbit litter, greens, yoghurt, toothpaste, washing up liquid, laundry detergent and a baguette for my lunch.

When I got back, I had:

Litter and greens for the rabbits
Yoghurt for Mr D, and I noticed he was low on orange juice, so I got some of that too
Tootpaste for us
Washing up liquid and laundry detergent for the house

Guess what I forgot?

Yep, my baguette.

So, maybe I do need to start putting myself first more often. It's a daunting prospect considring it's something I apparently never do!

I spoke to my GP yesterday and I told him that I'm ready to go back to work, but I'm not ready to face the payroll.  So he's signed me back to work from Monday on amended duties for a month subject to review at the beginning of August.  That means no payroll.  I spoke to my HR Director yesterday and she had already pre-empted this and was in the process of making arrangements. 

This was the first step in my new regime of self-care.  Last week I would never have done that because I was too concerned about the lady who is dealing with the payroll at the moment being overloaded. I still am.  But so many people have made it clear to me that that's my work's problem, not mine.

I have my first counselling session booked on the 20th July and my team have also pointed me to the burn-out prevention service on our employee assistance programme. Okay, so burn-out prevention may be a bit late in this instance, but it can't hurt to get a few tips and tricks in place!

So, here's to a new start - hopefully!!
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 I took a day out in London today to meet up with a friend.  We had a bit of lunch and a lot of chat, then we went for a wander around our old childhood stomping grounds, all around the Elephant and Castle.

There's a shop down the Walworth Road, just off of the Elephant and Caste that I remember from my earliest years, a herbalist called Baldwins and they sell a particular drink that's synonymous with South London and the West Indian communities around that area.

Sarsaparilla is a drink that I remember from my childhood and one of my fondest memories is going down East Street market with my parents or grandparents and we'd always stop at the Sarsaparilla Man's stall and have a cup.  You could drink it cold or hot, but I've alwas preferred it cold.

I probablly haven't drunk Sarsaparilla for, maybe, twenty years.  But today, for old times sake I went into Baldwins and treated myself to a bottle.  I had a glass earler this evening, and yes - it's still yummy!



And for some reason, it reminded me of this scene ... can't imagine why!!! ;)

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So, on Friday, the UK played host to Storm Eunice.  She was a temperamental old bitch and she outstayed her welcome, then she went on to visit Europe, and I sincerely hope my European chums weren't too inconvenienced by her!

We all battened down the hatches on Friday, and waited for her to pass over. 

At one point during Friday there was a news report that gusts of 122 mph, the highest ever recorded in England, had been measured off the Needles, a rock formation on the extreme west coast of the Isle of Wight.  My first thought was 'shit, that's about 2 miles from Mum and Dad's!' 



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Hey gang!

It's been a funny old year, a bit of a rollercoaster.  I feel like I've been here at Lj posting my Jensen Time, my bunny pics and my Friday Fives, but I also feel like I've been absent as well.



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So tomorrow, we have a difficult day ahead of us.

Mr D and I are attending the funeral of Michael, the husband of my longest-standing friend, Jane.  Jane and I go back fifty years, and I've known Michael for over twenty of those years.  Mr D has known MIchael just as long.  My heart is breaking for Jane and what she must be going through.

This will be my fourth funeral of the year, and I've really just had enough now.

Please, 2021, can I not lose anyone else?



Sorry, pity party over!

J2S day

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OK Guys, I feel that I'm falling behind the curve here.  Everyone is  celebrating J2S day, and Mr D has just asked me what it stands for.

And I don't know!!!!

Can anyone enlighten me?

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You'll never be as cool as this little dude!




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Not the best way to start a week.

Today was my first day back from annual leave and I was getting ready to go to work.  It was about 8 am and I was making breakfast when suddenly there was a loud pop, sparks, the toaster went bang and my toast bounced off the ceiling. The circuit breakers did their job, and all the lights and mains electricity went out.

I went out to the circuit breakers and reset the lights circuit, but when I went to reset the mains electricity circuit, it was jammed and I couldn't move it. I fiddled and faffed or a couple of minutes but no joy.  I phoned Mr D, and he couldn't figure out a reason why it wasn't resetting either.

So I had no mains electricity.  That meant no kettle, no fridge, no broadband, no phone charger...

Awesome!



So I called British Gas, the company that I have a homecare contract with and they said they'd send out an engineer before 1 pm.

I called work and told them that I'd have to work from home this morning, then sat down to wait for the engineer.

By mid day, my phone, my work phone and my work laptop were all down to minimal battery with no way to recharge them..  I was having to use the mobile hotspot on my phone so that was tearing through my battery and my data like no tomorrow.

Then at about 12.15 pm I got a phone call from British Gas.  The numpty who had put the booking in hadn't marked it as an emergency, so they couldn't actually get an engineer out until 4pm - 6pm.

Bloody hell!!!



But I decided to make the best of a rubbish situation.  If the engineer wasn't due until after 4pm, I could go down to the local coffee shop, get a hot drink and a sandwich, plug all my devices in to get them charging and do a bit of work at the same time.

And that's exactly what I did.  I got a good constructive couple of hours in.

Until at 2.45 pm, I got a text from the engineer while I was sitting in the coffee shop.  'I'm sorry I missed you, please call British Gas to reschedule.'

AAAAAAAAAARRRRGHHH!!!!!

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One frantic phonecall to British Gas, and a meltdown later, and I had arranged for the engineer to come back at the end of his shift between 6pm and 7pm.

At least I had some decent charge on my devices so could get a bit more work done now.

In the end, the engineer got to me about 5.30 pm.  He explained that somehow, a little test button on the mains circuit breaker got pressed (I may even have inadvertantly done it when I was trying to reset them).  This means that the system wouldn't have been able to reset the breaker until the 'test' button was released.

It took him all of ten seconds to fix it.

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Think I might start having cereal instead of toast in the mornings from now on ...

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