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Our family had some crushing news earlier this week.  To be honest, I'm still processing it.


My cousin's stepson was murdered in London on Tuesday.    He was a 22 year old man and was stabbed in a busy street in broad daylight in front of shocked shoppers.

I didn't know the lad, but I grieve with my cousin, Danielle, and her husband, Jermaine, who are both devastated beyond belief.  And let's face it, the death of any 22 year old, especially in these circumstances, is tragic beyond words.

It's a sad fact that young black men are the demographic most likely to die from inner city knife crime.  It's a statistic that we hear all the time here in the UK, but even so, you never really believe your own family will be touched by it.

What's the solution?  Who knows?  I don't feel I have any right to speak on this matter.  I'm  a middle-aged white woman whose greatest childhood hardship was never being allowed to have a pony.

The scumbags that did this have been caught.  I can only hope the justice system treats them appropriately and doesn't make Danielle and Jermaine suffer even more than they already are.

Keelen Wong, shine bright young man x
Brixton stabbing: Man charged with murder of Keelen Morris Wong | ITV News London

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Something (someone) I'm proud of

yourself (disguised enough that you're comfortable sharing the photo) your favorite book (we won't tell any of the others you picked a favorite) merchandise from a fandom (pick your definition of fandom--sports 100% qualify) your exercise equipment the view out a window
something alive a meal a letter/postcard from someone (feel free to redact) something that keeps you sane your computer
a useful tool memorabilia from an event outside wild card a game you've been playing a musical instrument
something someone made for you a gift you're planning to give an outfit you've worn recently (with or without you inside it) something that makes you smile the kitchen sink
something unexpected something funny a bad habit a good habit something you're proud of

Tomorrow is the 75th anniversary of VE (Victory in Europe) Day.

And that got me thinking of my Grandad.  Mr D and I dug out his old wartime photo albums and have been flicking through them.  Even though it's been almost 11 years since we lost Grandad, I'm actually quite overwhemed with how emotional I am looking through them. I've been tearful for nearly an hour now, and don't think that's wearing off anytime soon!

His name was Arthur Ludlow and he was born in 1922 in a part of East London called Forest Gate.

He was a Weapons Technician/Electrical Engineer in the Royal Air Force, and was stationed in Egypt for nearly five years.  One of the great prides of his life was that he worked on Spitfires, and a few months ago, around the 10th anniversary of his death, I bought a plushie spitfire beause it reminded me of him.




I only knew him as my lovely Grandad who I could wrap round my little finger; he doted on me and I doted on him.  He talked about Egypt a lot, but not in the context of the war.  He very rarely spoke about the actual fighting.

Needless to say, I'm very, very proud of him.
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I've been at a work conference today.  I'm not going to talk about the conference because, well, work conference. *yawn*

The conference was in London, at the Barbican.  Now, partly because the undergound is hell in rush hour, and partly because I decided it would be nice to get some fresh air and exercise, I decided to walk from Waterloo station to the conference and back again. This was a round trip of about four miles.


London )



Other stuff )



And that's about all the news from Dizzoland at the moment
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My cousin texted this great old picture that she found recently while she was sorting some papers out.


It's my 21st birthday party back in 1989, and the five lovely ladies with me are:
(L - R)
My Mum's Sister-in-Law, my Aunt Philomena
My Mum's best friend  from school, I knew her as Auntie Sue
My Mum
My Mum's older Sister, my Aunt Sylvie
My Mum's younger Sister, my Aunt Jackie




Picture here! )



Gotta love those 80's clothes and hairstyes!
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And Baby makes Three.jpg

Whoops, going away for a few days over the weekend has thrown me all out of kilter on this ... sorry for the delay in updating!


Chapter 11 )


Chapter 10

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And Baby makes Three.jpg



Chapter Text

Chapter 8 )



Chapter 7



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It's ages since I posted one of my multi-chapter stories here, and I don't think I've given this one an airing yet, so ...

AND BABY MAKES THREE

Rating: T for a few naughty words
Genre: gen, humour, case!fic
Characters: Sam, Dean, Impala
Spoilers/Warnings: None
Word Count: 14,000 (12 chapters)
Disclaimer: as if it actually needs repeating, I still don't own them






Chapter 1 )



I'll post one chapter each day (more or less!)

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On Saturday evening, I was out and about at a family party, my Aunt Sylvie's 80th birthday (she's my Mum's older sister).

I'm not really that close to my extended family (my Mum's one of six - three siblings and two half-siblings, so it gets VERY extended when you add in all the anklebiters), so I don't see a lot of them, and I never really look forward to these things, which is silly really, because I always enjoy them a lot more than I think I will!

This party was no different.  It's not that I don't love my family, because of course, I do.  I care about them, and I'm glad to know they're okay; It's simply that I don't have a lot in common with them, so I don't often seek out their company.  We normally average about one family party a year, and that's perfect for me.  I get to see them, exchange niceties without too much smalltalk, have a dance and a hug, then go our separate ways!

But whatever, it was nice to catch up with some members of the family that I haven't seen for a while, and some that I've seen very recenty ...

Here are the mugshots:

Me with my Mum (in the black and white top), with Jackie, her younger sister, and Jackie's husband, Chris.






More pics! )
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I planted a little poppy at the Leamington Spa cenotaph today in memory of my Grandad ...

Arthur William Ludlow
Royal Air Force 621 Squadron
8 July 1922 - 15 August 2009


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This turned up on my Fb feed earlier - a lovely message of thanks from an adorably rumpled and sleepy (and slightly emotional) Jensen. $250,000 raised for Hurricane Harvey relief.  The Spn Family is just a wonder, and I am so ridiculously proud to be a part of it

I know it's supporting such a good and noble cause, and so I'm trying very hard not to be shallow about how gorgeous he looks.



I failed.
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Today was my Grandma's birthday.  If she were still with us, she would have been 95.  As it was, she passed away in on February 6th 2003.   She was my Dad's Mum, and I was very close to my Grandparents on that side of the family; I was their only grandchild, after all!

My Grandma, Lillian (although she rarely ever used her name, her nearest and dearest knew her as Beau), was a remarkable lady.    She was born in South London in 1922, and her mother is where my family gets its Jewish heritage.  She lived in London throughout the Second World War, and seemingly loved every minute of it! In 1938, she met my Grandad, they married in 1942 in St George the Martyr Church at the Borough.  62 years later, I was bridesmaid for my long-standing friend, Jane, in that very same church.

It's a family joke that my Grandma's Dad was a bit of a wheeler dealer; the King of the Local Black Market if you like, and my Grandad's Mum was the landlady of the local boozer where a lot of his shady deals took place.  It's been said within the family that theirs was as near to an arranged marriage as you can get in our culture!!!

Grandma was a truly remarkable lady.  She started her working life as a 'clippie' (a female conductor) on the London Buses, and later transferred into the admin section of London transport where she rose from being a Payroll Clerk to a Payroll Manager over a number of years.  Bearing in mind this was in the sixties and seventies, an era when women weren't expected to progress in the workplace, and in many ways, they were actively discouraged from doing so, this was no small achievement.  I guess you could say she was a forerunner to today's modern 'career women'.

Although her work wasn't a conscious factor in my own career choices, here I am, forty/fifty years later - a Payroll Manager.  I like to think that would make her proud!

When my Grandad passed away in 2009, while my Mum, Dad and I were sorting out their house, we came across these beautiful old photos from my Grandma's family which none of us had ever seen before, I can't remember if I've ever shared them here or not, but regardless, this seems like an ideal time to do it ...


Pictures )

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